FOR THE WOMAN WHO ALWAYS KNEW SHE DESERVED MORE.

I’m the founder of QUIVR and the creator of The QUIVR Method™. For years, I watched brilliant, capable women, myself included, build lives that looked successful from the outside and felt strangely empty on the inside. We were excellent at performing. We knew how to hold everything together for everyone else. What we were never taught was how to receive: how to rest without guilt, how to know what we actually want, and how to feel truly alive in our own bodies.

 

I created QUIVR to change that. I wanted a place where women could finally understand their pleasure, measure it, practice it, and live by it, at their own pace and in their own way.

Then life tested everything I teach.

In one summer, I fell in love with gravel cycling, and then a freak bike accident left me with a brain bleed, a torn neck muscle, and the discovery of an aneurysm. Two weeks later, one of my children was hospitalized. It was, to put it gently, a lot. But in the middle of the chaos, I made a choice: I chose me. I got back on my bike. I saw my first moose and her calf in the wild. I finished my first year of graduate school in education and social work. And I discovered, more deeply than ever, that pleasure doesn’t wait for life to calm down. It shows up when we let it.

 

I’m also navigating perimenopause myself, which is why I started Menopause & Martinis. I had questions, and I knew I wasn’t the only one.

 

Today, I coach women and couples, host events that bring women together, and teach internationally, helping couples strengthen their bonds through intimacy. Everything I do comes back to one truth I’ve lived firsthand: choosing pleasure over pressure isn’t a luxury. It’s how we find our way back to ourselves.

 

If you’ve always known you deserved more, you’re in the right place.

Be well,

Amber J. Simon